Should I Stay or Go ?

My Dad Nearly Died Recently, He is very young and been through several cancers, also my granny is Close to death and cant move in her bed , Dad Is coming home today from hospital though, he has 1 kidney and it stopped and his feet are sweelled , I Have an upcoming Football trip that requires a 6 hour bus trip and we stay there a few night . mam thinks i should go .. over 200 euro was spent on me .. should i go or stay Please help me i have only 1 day to choose >>!!!